- Talk about trade I took today. Trade aligned with my system. But I broke my rule of “IF first trade is red THEN no more trades for today”
*** Notice that every time a proper setup gets stopped out, the price ends up being difficult to read for that 4h candle.*
- Create a check off list that you can include in your trading journal.
- What triggered tilt?
- First trade being a loser, I broke my rule of “IF first trade is a loser, THEN no more trades today”, I kept looking at the chart and forcing a “potential” setup.
- What thoughts/emotions did you notice in real time?
- Thinking that I’m getting farther away from a payout, if I just take a loss for the day that’s a missed out day that “could” be green and get me closer to a payout.
- I didn’t want to disappoint anyone around me, so I kept thinking if I just end up green for the day, then I won’t be a disappointment to not just myself, but people around me.
- After my trade got stopped out, I kept thinking to myself “oh okay, if it goes lower then we can still find an entry there” and that’s how I kept convincing myself that there was another entry present and the first trade was just a miss.
- What could you have done differently?
- After the trade got stopped, the first thing I should’ve done is closed the charts and accepted the loss. I understand that losing is a part of the game.
- Detachment from outcome, and complete focus on the setup. Was there possibly something present in price that invalidated my first trade? Why did I get stopped out? I should be asking myself that and analyzing price.
- I could’ve waited and sat on my hands, patiently, and waited to see if possibly price might want to offer another entry with a different PDA. If it did, it doesn’t matter because my first trade was a loser. But even if it did, I could’ve just watched and learned and journaled it anyway. If there wasn’t one, then I could’ve just closed off the charts and waited to see what 2pm has to offer.
- What can you practice to become better with controlling yourself when your first trade ends up being a loser?